Because sex is important.

To experience sexual pleasure is a wild and wonderful pleasure. But many of us think of sexual pleasure to be in one form only. Sexual pleasure can come in a variety of forms, each one resulting from different types of stimulation and lighting up different parts of the brain.

Knowing more about yourself can be helpful to express your sexuality more fully, and help you understand you partner’s desires and pleasures much more.

Do you know what your Arousal Type is? Find out
How do you initiate sex? Find out your sexual initiation style

We are sex therapists, researchers and regular people trying to provide the tools you need for sexual fulfillment. Have fun!

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How do you like your partner to initiate sex? Is it the same as your partner's style? Becoming aware of your initiation style can be key to more and satisfying sex!

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We believe

we are all human beings first, before our gender.

We are all more similar as human beings than we are different genders. We respect the differences while seeing the similarities.

sexuality is inherently positive.

Sexuality is a pleasurable, bonding and healthy things that takes many different forms and functions. .

arousal is individual & different for everyone.

We have individual differences around our sexuality that allow us to express ourselves and expand to our partners.

everyone's sexuality should be respected.

Let’s enjoy our sexuality, learning and growing along the way, together.

Which Arousal Pathways Do You Use?

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How do you get aroused? Is it the same as your partner's style? Find out!

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How to have an anal orgasm

Having an orgasm through anal stimulation can be a fiesta of pleasure. Not only can blissful sensation come from stimulating the outer anus, which is full of delicious nerve endings, throbbing pleasure can come from deep penetration. The possibilities are endless.
How to have an orgasm from anal play

How to have a g-spot orgasm

The mysterious G-Spot is no longer such a mystery. And the orgasms that result from a little massage of the G-Spot can be unique and explosive. It is this orgasm that has been linked most often to female ejaculation.
How to have a g-spot orgasm

Types of Orgasm

To orgasm is a wild and wonderful pleasure and motivator to be sexual. But many of us think of orgasm in one way. Orgasm can come in a variety of forms, each one resulting from different types of stimulation and lighting up different part of the brain (MRI research).