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The Arousal Project

We supply the tools and latest information to understand your sexual arousal and desire.

We look at all of the ways people get aroused.  From exposure to the “right” partner, to that fantasy or visual aid that gets your sexual brain firing to the need to feel connected.  These are all sexual triggers that once they get fired up it is impossible to do anything but think about sex.

We ask men and women to be involved in the process of discovering their own arousal process.  We want everyone to have a voice, to tell us what works for you so we can learn more about arousal.  Through surveys, polls and comments, we are discovering together.

Orgasm How-tos

Learn about the many types of orgasm -- clitoral, vaginal, dual, anal and more.

Vaginal, Clitoral & Anal Orgasms

Learn about the many types of orgasm — clitoral, vaginal, dual, anal and more.

Sexual Anatomy

Relevant sexual anatomy to discover your greatest arousal potential

Vaginal, Clitoral, Anal Anatomy

Relevant sexual anatomy to discover your greatest arousal potential.

Sex Tools and Toys

Sexologist developed and recommended toys and tools for your sexuality.

Trends and Ideas

The most recommended sex toys and other tools to improve your sex life.

Sexuality Tests

Find your Arousal Type, Cues to Desire, etc to understand your (and partners) erotic map.

Your sexual personality

Find your Arousal Type, Cues to Desire, etc to understand your (and partners) erotic map.

Our Sexologists

  • All content is written by sex-positive, non-biased & sexually sane .
  • All contributors are qualified with either a ton of education or ton of experience.
  • All sexologists on this site come from a variety of backgrounds, perspectives and orientations.

Quote of the Day

The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats, and not all things are black nor all things white. It is a fundamental of taxonomy that nature rarely deals with discrete categories. Only the human mind invents categories and tries to force facts into separated pigeon-holes. The living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects. The sooner we learn this concerning human sexual behavior, the sooner we shall reach a sound understanding of the realities of sex.”
Alfred Kinsey
Love enjoys knowing everything about you; desire needs mystery.
Esther Perel, Mating in Captivity
“Anxiety is love’s greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.”
Anais Nin

Dr. Petra Zebroff, B.A. , D.H.S., Ph.D., MPCC, RPC, Founder Libida.com

Petra is a sexologist certified by the American College of Sexologists she has written for Huff Post, Libida.com, Bloom, Sexlife magazine and belongs to several professional organizations including the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, ISSWSH and AASECT.  Petra is uniquely specialized in female sexuality from her studies in women’s sexuality to her experience in running an online magazine and store in women’s sexuality for 13 years.

 Dr. Zebroff’s approach to sex therapy

Sex is multifaceted and can be enjoyed in many ways and for many reasons. Above all we take a sex-positive approach. We never lose track that sex is juicy and delicious.

We focus on the sexual potential of every client and identify each person’s individual assets while we work with (and focus on) the individual strengths rather than on “solving problems”.

We delve into all aspects of what makes up a person’s sexuality to find the best possible inspired sexuality living to increase arousal and orgasm potential.