Arousal Type Test

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Arousal Scope Questionnaire

This survey is confidential and should take approximately 10 min to complete.
Email
Include the email you used in your original appointment.
My gender is:*
- Female
- Male
My sexual orientation is:
- Straight
- Gay
- Lesbian
- Bisexual
My relationship status is:
- Single
- In a relationship, not living together
- In a relationship, living together
- In a non-traditional relationship
I have been in a relationship with my partner for:
- Less than 6 months
- 6 months - 1 year
- 1 - 2 years
- 2 - 10 years
- 10 + years
I would rate the general satisfaction of my relationship as:
- Extremely satisfying
- More than satisfying
- Satisfying
- Somewhat unsatisfying
- Extremely unsatisfying
In order to feel turned-on, I am most likely to imagine ____________.*
- the sensations of sex -- how it feels to touch, smell, taste
- how sexy I feel or how much my lover desires me
- a particular type of "hot" activity we are doing (or would like to do)
- connecting with my lover
My ideal sexual partner*
- is someone who has sexual skill and a flair for experimenting.
- is someone who flows with the mood and the situation rather than trying to dictate just how sex is to be done.
- is my ideal love object.
- is someone who is overcome with desire for me.
I am preparing for my ideal sexual encounter with a lover, the situation that would help me to feel the most turned on would be:*
- Preparing the room with sexy ambiance -- candles, scents, music, etc.
- Dressing up in my favorite clothes to look "HOT"
- Planning my favorite fantasy / act
- Preparing a celebration for me and my lover that enhances our intimacy
- Making or buying my lover a gift that we share together
- Watching my favorite porn scene
- Shaving, using cologne/perfume or getting a manicure etc. to enhance my sexiness
- Preparing sensual props that encourage caressing (massage, feathers,etc)
- Planning a sexual adventure
- Giving my lover sexy clothing
The sex-talk that gets me most aroused is:*
- most of all during sex I like to hear and say "I love you."
- I really get off when my partner is urging, begging and telling me how much they want me.
- I can enjoy lusting sex talk that describes the things we are going to do to each other.
- I like little or no sex talk and more sensual friction.
If I had to choose the aspect that allows me to lose myself in a sexual experience the most, it would be:*
- Once I know I am loved and valued, then I can feel arousal.
- Once I feel desired and sexy, then I can feel arousal.
- Once my mind is properly stimulated with sexy thoughts, then I can feel arousal.
- Once I know my surroundings are free of distraction and sexy, then I can feel arousal.
When it comes to sexual fantasies:*
- I remember memories of past shared moments in which I felt especially close to a partner.
- I experience visual and auditory images that accompany the sensual experience during sex.
- I imagine that I could enjoy sex on a stage surrounded by an admiring audience.
- I rarely have a sex fantasy with a plot; usually I only have a series of unconnected visual and sensory images.
- My sex fantasies have sexual themes and lusty behaviors that I use to turn me on during ordinary sex.
- I imagine, how I look or how my partner sees me during sex to enhance my arousal.
- I imagine my partner is telling me how much he/she loves me during our lovemaking in ways that exceed the limits of mere words.
- I can enjoy imagining that I am acting out all sorts of hot sexual ideas and behaviors.
When I'm already feeling "turned on," the thing that will turn me off most easily is:
- not being appreciated by my lover
- being in an environment that isn't sexy
- feeling disconnected from my lover
- doing too much of the same thing
- being ignored or criticized
- when my lover won't take enough control
- when my lover takes too much control
- feeling pressured to do things
- when sex goes on too long
- when my lover doesn't get (or take) my cues
- when my lover is not interested in the sexual acts I like
- being rushed or not taking enough time
- my lover doesn't seem to have my best interests at heart
My ideal sex is:*
- to enjoy a variety of sex practices, themes and positions.
- characterized by the sensual and sexual sensations of the moment.
- feeling desired, sought after and wanted by my partner.
- the physical expression of love.
The predominant feeling in my best sexual experiences is:*
- Love.
- Excitement.
- Enjoyment.
- Desire.
What is the metaphor that best describes sex for you:*
- Sex is union.
- Sex is trance.
- Sex is desire.
- Sex is excitement.
My sexual style is:
- is affectionate and loving.
- is as varied as my mood and my fantasies can create.
- is on my inward sensations and experience during sex.
- is to feel appreciated and confident.
How do you feel about orgasm?
- Reaching orgasm is the single most important aspect to sex.
- Reaching orgasm feels great, but it is not as important as connecting with my partner.
- Reaching orgasm feels good, but the whole experience of the senses of sex is more important to me.
- My partner reaching orgasm is the most important apect to sex.
The type of touch I would like to experience more often during sex is:
- More gentle touch
- More moderate touch
- More firm touch
- More intense touch
- More touch in general, it doesn't matter which kind
- No touch at all
I get most turned on when:
- my lover initiates sex every time
- my lover initiates sex most times and I initiate rarely
- my lover and I both initiate sex equally
- I initiate sex most times, and my partner initiates rarely
- I initiate sex every time
- It doesn't matter to me
My favorite way my lover can initiate sex with me is:
Describe how would be the best way to approach you for sex.
The pace of sex I find most arousing is:
(Choose the pace you would like to include more in your sex life)
- Fast all of the time
- Fast most of the time, slow ocassionally
- Fast half of the time, slow half of the time
- Slow most of the time, fast ocassionally
- Slow all of the time
When I am looking forward to sex, what I am looking looking forward to the most is:
Choose your top 2
- To enjoy the sensations of my body
- To be close to my lover
- To reach orgasm
- To ride the wave of arousal
- To please my lover
- To know my lover is aroused by me
- To feel in-synch with my lover
- To experience a particularly hot act
- To have an adventure
- To feel desired
- To feel sexy
- I don't look forward to sex
The activities that turn me on the most "to imagine" are:
Choose your top 3
- Kissing
- Massage
- Dry humping
- Oral - cunnilingus
- Oral - fellatio
- Oral - rimming
- Vaginal intercourse
- Anal play
- Anal intercourse
- Threesome - MMF
- Threesome - FFM
- Threesome - MMM
- Threesome - FFF
- Group sex
- New locations
- Role play
- Discipline - spanking,
- Bondage
- Being submissive
- Being dominant
- Sex toys
- Exhibitionism
- Voyeurism
- Fetish play
The activities that turn me on the most "to do" are:
Choose your top 3
- Kissing
- Massage
- Dry humping
- Oral - cunnilingus
- Oral - fellatio
- Oral - rimming
- Vaginal intercourse
- Anal play
- Anal intercourse
- Threesome - MMF
- Threesome - FFM
- Threesome - MMM
- Threesome - FFF
- Group sex
- New locations
- Role play
- Discipline - spanking,
- Bondage
- Being submissive
- Being dominant
- Sex toys
- Exhibitionism
- Voyeurism
- Fetish play
16. I get most turned on in a sexual situation when:
"Taking control" in a sexual situation can be subtle, including initiating sex, introducing activities or changing positions, or more overt, such as using restraints or dom-sub roleplay
- my lover takes control most or every time
- my lover takes control more than I do, but not every time
- when my lover and I take turns being in control
- when I take control more than my lover, but not every time
- when I take control most or every time
Which props do you find most arousing to bring into a sexual scenario?
Choose max of 3
- Dildos – for penetration
- Clitoral Vibrators
- Sensual massage oils and candles
- Blindfolds
- Restraints
- Paddles and spankers
- Anal toys
- Cock-rings or penis pumps
- Sex furniture
- Fetish gear / sexy clothing
- Porn or other visual aids
- Erotica
- Couples toys (i.e. remote toys,vibrating cock-ring, etc)
- None
18. When I think of my hottest sexual experience, from start to finish it would last:
- more than 2 hours
- 1 - 2 hours
- 40 - 60 min
- 20 - 40 min
- 5 - 20 min
- less than 5 min
19. During sex, I find the best way to communicate my sexual needs and desires is with:
- clear verbal communication
- non-verbal communication that uses mostly touch
- non-verbal communication that uses mostly eye contact
- non-verbal communication, where the person just knows what to do
- non-verbal vocalizations and gestures (moaning or pulling away)
21. How sexy my lover dresses is:
- The single biggest turn-on
- A strong turn-on
- A moderate turn-on
- A mild turn-on
- Not a factor in how turned on I get
- A turn off
22. I prefer to be sexual:
- with a partner every time
- with a partner most times and on my own occasionally
- with a partner half of the time and on my own half of the time
- on my own most of the time and with a partner occasionally
- on my own every time
1. I feel content with the way my present sex life is.
- Strongly disagree
- Disagree a little
- Neither agree or disagree
- Agree a little
- Strongly agree
2. I often feel something is missing from my present sex life.
- Strongly disagree
- Disagree a little
- Neither agree or disagree
- Agree a little
- Strongly agree
3. I often feel I don’t have enough emotional closeness in my sex life.
- Strongly disagree
- Disagree a little
- Neither agree or disagree
- Agree a little
- Strongly agree
4. I feel content with how often I presently have sexual intimacy (kissing, intercourse, etc.) in my life:
- Strongly disagree
- Disagree a little
- Neither agree or disagree
- Agree a little
- Strongly agree
6. Overall, how satisfactory or unsatisfactory is your present sex life?
- Completely satisfactory
- Very satisfactory
- Reasonable satisfactory
- Not very satisfactory
- Not at all satisfactory
FO 1. Over the last year, I have had difficulty reaching orgasm on my own (with NO partner present)
- Almost always or Always
- Most times (more than half of the time)
- Sometimes (about half of the time)
- A few times (less than half of the time)
- Almost never or Never
FO 2. How many times have you had difficulty reaching orgasm WITH a partner present?
- Almost always or Always
- Most times (more than half of the time)
- Sometimes (about half of the time)
- A few times (less than half of the time)
- Almost never or Never
Over the last year, I have had difficulty maintaining an erection with intercourse
- Almost always or Always
- Most times (more than half of the time)
- Sometimes (about half of the time)
- A few times (less than half of the time)
- Almost never or Never
Over the last year, I have had difficulty getting enough lubrication during intercourse:
- Almost always or Always
- Most times (more than half of the time)
- Sometimes (about half of the time)
- A few times (less than half of the time)
- Almost never or Never
1. During the last month, how often would you have liked to engage in sexual activity with a partner (for example, touching each other's genitals, giving or receiving oral stimulation, intercourse, etc.)?
- Not at all
- Once a month
- Once every two weeks
- Once a week
- Twice a week
- 3 to 4 times a week
- Once a day
- More than once a day
2. During the last month, how often have you had sexual thoughts involving a partner?
- Not at all
- Once a month
- Once every two weeks
- Once a week
- Twice a week
- 3 to 4 times a week
- Once a day
- More than once a day
3. When you have sexual thoughts, how strong is your desire to engage in sexual behavior with a partner?
- 0 No Desire
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 Strong Desire
4. When you first see an attractive person, how strong is your sexual desire?
- 0 No Desire
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 Strong Desire
5. When you spend time with an attractive person (for example, at work or school), how strong is your sexual desire?
- 0 No Desire
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 Strong Desire
6. When you are in romantic situations (such as a candle lit dinner, a walk on the beach, etc.) how strong is your sexual desire?
- 0 - No Desire
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 - Strong Desire
7. How strong is your desire to engage in sexual activity with a partner?
- 0 - No Desire
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 - Strong Desire
8. How important is it for you to fulfill your sexual desire through activity with a partner?
- 0 - Not at all important
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 - Extremely important
9. Compared to other people of your age and sex, how would you rate your desire to behave sexually with a partner?
- 0 - Much Less Desire
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 - Much More Desire
10. During the last month, how often would you have liked to behave sexually by yourself (for example, masturbating, touching your genitals, etc.)?
- Not at all
- Once a month
- Once every two weeks
- Once a week
- Twice a week
- 3 to 4 times a week
- Once a day
- More than once a day
11. How strong is your desire to engage in sexual behavior by yourself?
How strong is your desire to engage in sexual behavior by yourself?
- 0 - No Desire
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 - Strong Desire
12. How important is it for you to fulfill your desires to behave sexually by yourself?
- 0 - Not at all important
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 - Extremely important
13. Compared to other people of your age and sex, how would you rate your desire to behave sexually by yourself?
- 0 - Much Less Desire
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
- 7
- 8 - Much More Desire
14. How long could you go comfortably without having sexual activity of some kind?
- Forever
- A year or two
- Several months
- A month
- A few weeks
- A week
- A few days
- One day
- Less than one day
Sexual opinions: Choose the statement(s) that you agree with or that apply to you.
(select all that apply)
- Watching porn helps me get into a lustful mood
- My biggest turn-on is knowng my partner really is enjoying the sex
- Sex loses value if I don't have an orgasm.
- If my lover doesn't think I'm sexy, I can't enjoy sex.
- Sexuality is all about feeling emotionally attached; if that doesn't happen it's not good sex.
- Touch is the most important part of sex; without a lot of touch sex is meaningless.
- It is important to look good to feel sexual.
- A sexy environment is crucial to feel sexual.
- When my lover dresses sexy for me I feel like they want me.
In order to feel turned-on, I am most likely to imagine ____________.
Put your answers in order of most arousing to least arousing.
- the sensations of sex -- how it feels to touch, smell, taste
- how sexy I feel or how much my lover desires me
- a particular type of "hot" activity I am doing (or would like to do)
- connecting with my lover
In order to feel turned-on, I am most likely to imagine ____________.
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