Have you ever wanted your partner to “take charge”?
Or has your partner complained that they want you to initiate more?
You might be mismatched on one element: who leads sex.
Some people like to lead sex and others just like to “let go” and enjoy their sexual moment. If you don’t know where you (or your partner) is on this scale, you could just feel frustrated with one another.
Find out where you fit on the SuDo scale.